The relevance of Facebook to your life
Our social media accounts serve as one of the best ways for us by the exchange or the exchange to communicate our thoughts, not only with our family members , friends, and colleagues, but also with the world - thanks to the Internet. Twitter, Instagram and Facebook give us to update what is happening to our world through news and current affairs. You can information on food, health, medicine, science and technology, history, geography, etc. We also have first-hand information from people who we look to - film actors and actresses, sports icons, singers, authors and many others. But let's talk more about Facebook - that's where we do most of the speech
At least 80% of the people I know (myself included) are checked on facebook .. We our messages almost every now feeds and then, depending on our situation, needs or leisure. Based on my personal experience, observation and reactions of other people, often the things that we see are not as enjoyable or entertaining. You are annoying in the process and can make us unhappy. There is a tremendous amount of points that could disturb us, but let's just focus on what we experience from day to day
Here are some examples of what we see in our News feeds frequently .:
Selfies, selfies Custom to flood the your screen
New personal items such as bags, shoes, smart phones, watches, etc.
Someone has bought a new car or driving anywhere they want to be
Foods that people eat in a restaurant, which are either expensive or cheap
People who just all about their children school performance, sports, music and art every post
Images show someone muscles or physical abilities from
List of workout routines of the individual, the food they eat (diet)
selfie a video or image of someone in the gym, especially a mirror
A video singing of someone dancing or playing a musical instrument
People be too hard in a public contribution through comments hard and unkind words, so do
People who represent a divine character by posting Bible verses when in fact they are really not what they show, they are
Posts that are complaining about the government and politics, or a person, the anger and trouble with something or someone
People who just share, and publish what they see on their homepage
to give a few examples given destination entertainment or our friends and family show (which we see, not every day), what happens in our daily lives. However, they tend to show narcissism pride boldness bias negativity to things, and selfishness . The question is how and why we judge people on what to see from their posts? Some answers are obvious, some are not.
Studies show that too much selfie or self-portrait photo is linked directly to narcissism . Why would you even take hundreds of pictures of yourself and post it on social media if they only show your face? What would you want to see the people? It's all your face! What is so special about him? All right, you're pretty, you're handsome - so what?
pride is normal, but it is also misunderstood by our Facebook friends who are our audience. Just be careful with your words and typical theme.
courage is what people have when they just be yourself. It is a product of luck, confidence and satisfaction with someone's life or the situation, no matter how easy or hard it is.
We say that someone is pretending when we know that they personally - we know how they treat other people - or what they have in terms of the material things in life that they purchase or can afford.
What we say about negativity ? Of course, we are only human, we are never perfect. Who does not get angry, irritated, upset or worse? Only something that is not life. But do not make your social media account to your live update of your emotional or physical illness. Although, sometimes it might help you get sympathy (if that is what you really need) of your friends and relatives, it does not mean that you can publish your negativity to any situation endlessly. In addition, if you really think that the government will find you, and to change its regulation, think again.
Do not be egocentric . If you believe everything you or share post will help all, you're wrong. They will flood only in their news feeds. You do not share anything that you think is informative or interesting all the time. Just press the button or comment on this public post, your friends will see it.
What do you feel when you get happy or positive comments?
There is such a great feeling that your friends and family members "as" and left a 'comment' on your posts. You feel accepted, valued, appreciated, accepted and even respected. Now find these words' antonyms as I ask, what if you happen your post (you look at specific) is ignored. In the modern world, in which we live, social media has become an online representation of us.
Why do we get angry?
We assume that the examples given are annoying and may feel jealous or skeptical. In my previous article, "If criticism is a good thing?" I have mentioned the reasons why we judge people or criticize.
We. On the posting of such things as have our own reasons In fact, think that if we in the past, back in the day, when we had nothing operated by the technology or the Internet, it seems as if we did the same. We talked to our friends about everything. We wrote letters to our loved ones. We shared everything that is happening to us, including, of course, the things that we are proud. We took photos, printed them, and showed them our family members and friends. You do not want in your image look bad, right? Nothing has changed that much - if that in would be as we maintain our freedom, that it is being abused and we do not care about our virtual community, which is directly connected with reality. The main difference here is that we can be seen all over the world to show our loved ones by other people, depending on your post privacy settings. Think about it, whether inside or Facebook, not all people you consider friends are not really your friends. What more is there if they are just your online friends? They do not know well, so they would wrong you understand most of the time. What these contributions makes (that does not intend to insult others) is annoying that we - the only virtual friend is someone - see things that should be shown only for the people who know them personally
here is a quote. Francis Collins: "God gave us free will, and we can choose to apply it in a manner forming hurt other people." we have a free will since the day we were born. Let us choose the best option and to live a happy life. Sometimes we need to look at the result of our actions only. We need to just thoroughly consider how our actions can affect other people, and especially our "online community".
