The issue about premarital sex among teens
Teenage sexual activity is a major problem facing the nation and has led to a rising incidence of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), emotional and psychological injury out so teenage pregnancy and premarital sex events alarm and out-of-marriage each sector in our society childbearing especially the Church and healthcare facilities. Extensive studies have been performed to support this scenario. A young adult Fertility Survey (Yafs) revealed that men make up more in premarital sex than women, but over the years, young women with men. The survey was old at 20,000 Filipino youths aged 15 to 24 years all over the country. -marital After 2002 Young Adult Fertility and Sexuality Study by the University of the Philippines Population Institute (Uppi) and the Demographic Research and Development Foundation, 26 percent of our Filipino youth nationwide, old, aged 15 to 25 years, was a pre having sex Experience. What's worse is that 38 percent of our youth are already in a live-in arrangement.
has launched the sexual revolution in a time in which the average adolescent enormous pressure is sexual experience of any kind to have. Today Pinoy teens have a higher exposure to sex from the Internet, magazines, TV shows, movies and other media as decades ago, but without a corresponding increase in information on how to handle the input. So kids are pretty much on other children for opinions and value education when it comes to sex. Sexual misinformation is therefore equally divided into the group. Parents at home and teachers at school feel equally inadequate or restless, to discuss the topic of sex with teenagers. The problem rises because the barkada has a great influence, as parents do, putting pressure and expects the youth to meet the rest of them.
In our society outside of marriage or sex before marriage is not acceptable, especially that we are a Christian country where the sanctity of marriage sacred, it is considered civil or religious ceremony. But still a lot of people, especially the young, were tempted to commit this act to discredit the belief that sex is only for married couples and virginity the gift that you can give to her husband on the night of their wedding. "Girls have sex to be loved, while boys love to have sex"
. The romantic stereotype is that most obviously sleazy yet devastatingly ever spoken lines. Men say women having sex is to bring only their way their love expressed, is about as flimsy a spider saw a butterfly invites in her living room; while women believe that sex is their way to prove their love to a man. They gave all in the name of love to establish the truth of the reality of their love. However, the question: What if they are not to be? Later, recognizing the women, that the damage is done. The guilt sets in and emotion as this has a great effect in her life.
The knowledge of premarital sex was observed among young people to be weak, as shown by the rising rate of unwanted pregnancies, abortions, the use of contraceptives and the spread of sexually transmitted disease. Teens have the right to know more than the bare facts of menstruation menopause, pregnancies, etc. With the right information, the youth will be more careful with their sexual activities.
sexual intercourse itself is neither moral evil nor good. It is the manner in which it was used, which explains their morale. Like most things in life, it has to do at the right place, at the right time and in the right circumstances. Sexual intercourse should be practiced in the spirit of love, and should always be in private practiced exclusively by those who (opposite gender, of course) are married and should always be taken by consensus. This is the only right way to do it. get
have to wait Youth for the right time before they engage in sexual activity, not because of the reason that it is an immoral practice, but by the fact that risks such as abortion, unwanted pregnancy are involved, the sexually transmitted diseases, etc. It also has a negative impact on their physical, social and psychological nature. Nevertheless make whatever decision you, s / he should be ready to face the consequences of their actions.
brings Unprotected sexual activity at puberty with them, the dangers of early or unwanted pregnancy, abortion. Often in unsafe conditions, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV infection and AIDS In 1994 YAFSS II, a large number of Filipino youth aged 15 to 24 had been active in sexual activity. About 1.8 M boys and 670,000 girls had been having sexual relations. On average, the first sex encounter at the age 18. The study also happens mark shows that girls were forced into sexual relations, negotiate successful due to their inability to refuse sexual intercourse, if not desirable, and are usually with the threat of abandonment faced by the partners.
The presence of parents and parental supervision is an important factor that could regulate the spontaneity of sexual activity among young adolescents. Other factors associated with young people early sexual experiences, social interactions by the frequency with friends going out are indicated.
for young people and youth make it possible to cope with this difficult world, they should be provided with accurate information about their health concerns are available; make health services available and accessible to them; build their skills to enable them to cope effectively with the demands and challenges of everyday life and creates a safe and supportive environment that will promote their growth and development. The influential adults such as parents, health care providers, teachers, legislators and people in the community should also consider the skills that youth issues and concerns.
to stay ahead of these harmful effects away teenagers need to keep standards and understand their responsibilities. Teens today need to follow the law of chastity. Chastity is "a way of life, freedom brings, respect, peace and even romance - without regret, chastity a few of the selfish attitudes freed to use each other as objects, and makes them capable of giving their love chastity is a very difficult life .. Chastity means the successful integration of sexuality within the person and thus the inner unity of man in his bodily and spiritual being "(Catechism of the Catholic Church 2337). This comes to show that chastity should be practiced among our youth today. Young people are vulnerable to premarital sex, and are mainly influenced by the media of the casual attitude toward it. Youth today are bombarded with the image of sex before marriage through advertising. You can not see cable TV to kiss without people intimately to see, or even sex. Premarital sex is suggested everywhere in our society, as can be seen on billboards, in movies and in magazines. Maybe if adolescents were more confident that they would not be vulnerable, and influenced by these artificial advertising. There is no better way for young people around sex of all the dangers to protect, to leave out sex for marriage. Sexuality in humans has been designed not only be fine; it was designed to be extremely good! And it's great and wonderful when we he wanted to use this special gift of God in the way. Unfortunately, many people do not respect their sexuality as they should. By immoral sexual behavior they belittle what God is supposed to be a very special experience.
