So he sat down, held her hand and told you he needs some space. Or maybe your friend said, he wants to take a break from the relationship. Maybe he also told you, he's not ready for a serious commitment, and want to go back and slow down a little step. But hey, you know what?
It's all the same.
Each time a guy away or distancing oneself from your relationship, it is because he is looking to test some limits. The bad news is that you could be headed for a separation. The good news is that your friend still has feelings for you ... because if it does not you have to love, he would have just broken up with you completely.
No, the fact is that emotional bonds remain. He might be unsure of what he wants, but there is one thing he is certain: He definitely wants you to stay and wait for him while he "figures things".
And believe me ... this is the last what you want to do now.
If your friend says he needs some space, is the best thing to do is to give it to him. Promises you can not make him fight for them, to change, or to ask what the terms of your will be "broken". Let him say what he wants, and then cleanly removed only by foot. The less a reaction you give him? The easier it will be to get your boyfriend back.
You see, right now awaits your friend to resist you. He wants and needs you to be still in love with him, and he would like to be tight. Basically, he wants to have his cake and eat it too: Your friend wants the freedom to go and may date other girls while you sit at home waiting patiently for him to announce when the break ends.
"I need space" is very convenient because you do not even have to ask him if he again pushing for fear of coming or push it. For this reason, you should not even bother. to The best thing to do is to announce something along the lines of:
"Yes, now a" fracture " does not work for me either I'm your friend or am I not. ... I do not care to play too much about our relationship games with him, so they take it and good luck. "
Once your friend. You are going to not sit back passively while he dictates the rules and regulations of the so-called "break". With it, not allowed to put your relationship in limbo, you are to give him a strong taste for the opportunity he you lose for good. This will scare him so with a lot more than if you played his application to court.
already to break in a relationship? Do not worry, it's never too late to remedy the situation. There are methods and techniques that you can use your husband to bring, and his love and attention to focus it back on your relationship.
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